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The Bruce Lee Paradox: Leading with Intention, Not Force

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“The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus.” – Bruce Lee

There is something profound about how Bruce Lee moved in the world that I believe modern leaders desperately need to understand. I call it the Bruce Lee Paradox.

Most of us are taught - explicitly or implicitly - that more force equals more results. More hustle. More pressure. More effort. More doing. But Bruce Lee defied all of that. One of his most legendary techniques was the one-inch punch - a strike delivered from…

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Expand Your Vision. Narrow Your Focus.

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Your next chapter doesn’t require more effort - just more clarity.

“It’s not that we don’t know what to do. It’s that we can’t see clearly enough to know what matters most.”

If you're anything like the visionary leaders I work with, and perhaps a bit like me, then you know the ache of feeling stuck. Not because you lack ambition but because your vision has outgrown your environment. You are holding a bigger dream but can’t quite find the runway to take off.

If you’re a leader or an emerging one, yo…

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Why the Valley Might Be Your Greatest Teacher

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"We do not learn from experience... we learn from reflecting on experience." - John Dewey

A question has been echoing through my work lately: What if the valley isn’t the problem but the portal?

We often treat life's “valleys” - the dips, slowdowns, and stuck points - as places to escape. But in my experience, both in billion-dollar boardrooms and quiet moments of personal reinvention, the valley is where the real transformation begins.

Yes, life is an emotional roller coaster. The peaks are exhila…

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An Inspired Poem: The Moment We Meet Beauty

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It arrives unannounced,
not always grand,
sometimes in the hush between heartbeats,
in the shadow of a leaf curling into dusk.

Beauty is not a thing,
but a
recognition
a moment when the world
remembers how to breathe.

It’s the glint of light
catching the edge of an old window,
the way a stranger laughs
as if joy had just been invented.

Beauty isn’t loud.
It doesn’t beg for attention.
It invites us inward —
to
witness,
to soften,
to remember that we belong
to something more
than our to-do lists and timelines.

It l…

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Heart on Fire: The Leadership We Don’t Talk About Enough

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“Build something bold. Set it ablaze. Let it live on in the hearts of those it touched.”

Have you ever seen art on fire?

I recently watched the documentary Art on Fire, which captures the stunning, surreal experience of Burning Man, a temporary city of creativity, humanity, and heat built in the Nevada desert. For one week, people gather to create massive, awe-inspiring works of art, only to burn them to the ground. And then, just like that, it all disappears - no trace, no souvenirs, just the aft…

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The Decoder Ring of Connection: Breaking Through Misunderstandings

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“Patience and understanding will never go out of style – they are the bridges that hold us together.”

We’ve all had moments when communication feels like a puzzle. Words are exchanged, but the intended meaning gets lost somewhere between saying and hearing. In these moments of miscommunication, we could really use a metaphorical decoder ring - a mindset and approach that allows us to slow down, listen deeply, and connect with greater compassion.

Understanding each other isn’t always intuitive. Our…

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Inspiring Vision: Saguaro National Park

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“Even in the harshest landscapes, growth finds a way to thrive.”

Saguaro National Park illustrates how resilience and adaptability can flourish even in the most unforgiving environments. With their slow yet steady growth, the iconic saguaro cacti teach us the importance of persistence, patience, and thriving against all odds. Just as the desert offers beauty in its starkness, our greatest challenges often reveal opportunities for growth and transformation. We can also have immense strength and gr…

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An Inspired Poem: To Be of Love

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We are taught to be of value
To weigh worth in output, in proof, in praise.
To measure ourselves in tasks completed,
In goals achieved, in ladders climbed.

But what if we are not here
To earn our place, to justify our space?
What if we are not coins to be spent,
Nor tools to be sharpened and used?

What if instead, we are of love?
Not something to be measured, but something to be felt.
Not something to prove, but something to give.

To be of love is to stand still
In a world that demands motion.
To be of love …

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What SNL’s 50 Years Teach Us About Talent, Creativity, and Perseverance

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"Live from New York, it’s Saturday Night!"

For half a century, Saturday Night Live (SNL) has done more than entertain us; it has shaped our culture, launched careers, and redefined the boundaries of comedy. From its very first episode in 1975, the show has evolved, adapted, and endured, proving that staying power isn’t about perfection - it’s about persistence, reinvention, and knowing when to take a risk.

As I have immersed myself in the 50th-anniversary specials, I have been struck by the many l…

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An Inspired Poem: Feeling Lost

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Drifting in a sea of questions,
uncertain of where the shoreline lies,
I walk roads that once felt familiar,
but now dissolve beneath my feet.

The compass I once trusted
ambition, success, the path well-worn
now spins in endless circles,
pointing nowhere, whispering
pause.

What can you do when you feel lost?
Not fight the fog, nor force the way,
but soften into stillness,
listen for the quiet glow within.

When the world blurs into shadow,
seek what sparks - what stirs - what sings.
Follow the embers of joy yo…

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